Look, I get the whole thing where you're the GM here and you make up the rules as you go. Honestly though, Hunter, do you expect people to know what rules you want them to follow if you don't have them listed in the text of your current rules? Two people I have seen got suspended for talking about reach arounds, and they were obviously joking about it. However, you have no rule, so how would people who are new here know any better? If keeping gay talk out of chat is a no brainer, then adding it into your rules so that everyone knows it's not acceptable should be a no brainer too. Just my opinion, take it or leave it.