xiggie even tho i dont know you i wish you and your family the deepest condolences i can relate to how it is for you as i too have a brother who is mentally handicapped and have tried to help my parents take care of him for the last few years and i know how much work that can be i havent had much chance to play on ez lately but if you happen to see any of my <legion of doom> crew online please feel free to send a tell if you just need to talk or wanna kill some time to get things off your mind