First, you will really want to upgrade clients if you play here very long. Titanium is no longer fully supported, as a lot of the spells and effects on gear are not usable with the older client, and some of the newer zones arent either. If you need a copy of the client if can be downloaded from Hateborne's website,
http://hateborne.dyndns.org/ezserver/clients/. You'll also notice better overall performance, less bugs (since Titanium was, by SOE's own admission, one of the worst clients they every made) and a bunch of nice features. Also, upgrading will most probably resolve your spell gem problem.
But, if you dont care about a better client or having access to all game content and are married to Titanium.... are you running a custom UI or the default? MQ2 or no?
That aside, welcome to EZ! If you like, check out a bunch of info that might help you get started here, at
http://ezserver.online/forums/index.php?topic=2890.0
